How do I convince my kids not to hate math?

I have engineer background so naturally, I like math. However, most kids hate math to their bone. I’m gonna try to tell my son that math is the langue of the universe, the langue that explains how things work/interact with each other, but I’m struggling to come up with simple examples of how math really is related their daily life.

I’m trying to not “force” science/math on my kids, so I try to guide them in a way that they can relate to it.

If you have to explain to your kids that they may need, let’s say, Trigonometry or just a simple question why do they even need to study Math, how would you do it?

Comments

  1. Math is not the same as arithmetic. But somehow schools keep teaching arithmetic and telling kids it’s math, even though it is much less interesting and useful.

  2. Kids hate math because it’s taught so incredibly badly.

    Traditional maths teaching involves rote-learning a bunch of algorithms (such as multiplication) and tables, then doing endless quantities of dogwork practice.

    The algorithms as taught are entirely opaque, giving no insight into what’s going on, no way to sanity-check if the answers are right as you go; it’s horrible and bureaucratic – like copying large quantities of numbers from one part of the page to another, only with hard, fiddly transformations along the way that are easy to fuck up, which is discouraging as hell.

    Most students learn to hate it with a passion; of the few that show aptitude for it, a disturbing percentage can only work by rote methods, and have very little insight into solving novel problems or being able to spot errors.

    It’s a bit like teaching kids to read via ‘sight words’ and never introducing them to the concept of phonics. Most would do very badly at memorising thousands of arbitrary strings of letters – and most of those that managed would be completely stumped by new words, regional dialects, phonetic spellings or the very concept of etymology.

    This is one of the big things that the common-core maths curriculum seeks to correct.

    In common-core, less emphasis is put on formal pen-and-paper methods, and more on mental maths strategies, alternate approaches, visualisations, and giving kids a lot more insight into what’s going on, how to tackle the problem and why it works, rather than just drilling them on what to do.

    From what I’ve seen, it could be a real game-changer.

  3. What’s more effective than telling them why math is cool, is showing them cool math.

    I’ve always turned people onto math by telling them about simple graph theory problems, like the non-planarity of U6 or K5. It’s a problem which is simple to state (“Can you connect each dot to every other dot without crossing lines?”), and the lack of numbers, initially, takes away from the intimidation people feel when they encounter math problems usually.

    But sadly, grade school kids are at an age where the kind of math they’re learning isn’t terribly interesting. It’s tricky to find anything beautiful about basic multiplication tables, even though they’re so necessary to learn.

  4. My kid (in elementary school) struggles with enjoying math when I want him to practice so that he can get better at it. How many of you also have kids who hate practicing math? (Or is it just me!?) If you’re in the same boat, what are some of the reasons that your kid(s) don’t like it?

  5. Math is quite abstract. There are different ways to learn it, though. Maybe Google can help you find a way that suits your kid better.

  6. I’ve only JUST begun to understand math because I’m a teacher. I kid you not, I did not get math at all. I honestly believe some people just don’t have the “math brain” necessary for math. That being said, my students do very well in math aside from those with considerable delays in other areas as well.

    I use Youtube videos, Mathletics, and old school ways to help kids have ah-ha moments. I praise them for how smart they are. It is weird, my students are excited for math and say they love it. Whereas, I used to cry during math class.

  7. I think a lot of kids don’t like math because they don’t under stand it, or they don’t understand what it is for. When I was 12 I didn’t like it because I didn’t see the point in it. But as I grew up I saw how math was everywhere and my mind was changed.

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